Former DOC Officer Anthony Rinaldi Says He "Snapped" Before Shooting Wife. Then "Military Training Kicked in"

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"She is definitely dead -- I put two to the chest and one to the head."

That's what Anthony Rinaldi -- now a former Department of Corrections officer -- told a Department of Public Safety officer last night, less than 30 minutes after fatally shooting his wife, 28-year-old Amanda Rinaldi, at the Phoenix home the couple shared.

Rinaldi, 26, also told detectives he "snapped" as the two were arguing and that his "military training kicked in" before gunning down his wife.

According to court records obtained by New Times, Rinaldi has a long history of domestic violence. He also has a history of threatening suicide, and police suspect he may be suffering from post traumatic stress disorder caused by his time in the military.

About 6:20 p.m. yesterday, Rinaldi's 7-year-old step-son called 9-1-1 to report that his mother and step-father were arguing about money. The boy told the dispatcher he heard a "boom, boom, boom" come from the garage."

About five minutes later, Rinaldi also called 9-1-1 to report that he shot his wife three times. He told the dispatcher he was no longer at the couple's home and that he planned to commit suicide by shooting himself in the head. Then he hung up.

The 9-1-1 dispatcher called Rinaldi back, at which point he told her he was pulling up behind a DPS officer on the side of the I-10.

After pulling over behind the DPS officer, Rinaldi got out of his car, put his right hand over his head as he used his left hand to hold a cell phone to his ear, and told the officer "you're gonna want to put me in handcuffs, sir."

When DPS Officer Robert Hicks asked Rinaldi why he'd want to put him in handcuffs, Rinaldi told him to "talk to the guy on the phone -- I just shot my wife."

Rinaldi didn't say why he'd shot his wife, but told Hicks that he "flipped," and that she "was definitely dead."

Hicks took Rinaldi into custody. While searching Rinaldi's vehicle, the officer found a loaded handgun on the passenger seat.

Rinaldi's being held on $360,000 bail. His next court appearance is scheduled for December 21.

DOC officials say Rinaldi's been "dismissed" from the department.

"The Arizona Department of Corrections is saddened by the tragic news that a wife of an ADC employee was shot and killed last night," DOC Director Charles Ryan says in a statement the department provided to New Times. "Officer Anthony Rinaldi has been dismissed from the Department, and the Phoenix Police Department is investigating his involvement in the shooting."

The 7-year-old and another of child, a 2-year-old, are being placed in the custody of relatives.

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lukekimm
lukekimm

im not going to take this time to personally target anyone typing here, because it wont change anything. yall keep being who you are,typing your shit either way. Please let me reassure you that PTSD is a real thing, and the ones who think it isn't haven't personally seen it destroy numbers of your friends and dealt with it yourself. I served with Rinaldi in Ramadi, Iraq, and let me definitively say, we took more than we lost. Now ,Rinaldi went on to fight more battles, and after one you'll be fighting with yourself. You find happiness in little places, but the ghosts will always haunt you. So, to you out there who think PTSD isn't real is probably because every time you fired your weapon your head was ducked behind the humvee. But there is  a breed of us out there that looked at what we shot, and though we followed orders, maybe even saved a buddies life or our own. In the end we still have to live with ourselves, and what we did, and what we saw. To those of you out there who wanna type the first thing that comes to mind, please understand everyone has a history. Rinaldi's is one of bravery and valor, and i cant stand by and let you say these things about him before you dive back into a video game in your parents basement. 

Mark Kupiec
Mark Kupiec

I've been constantly checking for updates from the family, or anyone that is aware of his current situation. I also, like many here, served with Rinaldi. Personally I do not have a single bad thing to say about him. He was always a loyal and all around great guy. About his actions, I am saddened. But those actions do not take away everything about who he is. Many of us 1-6 guys have told any one reading these comments about who he actually was. Some of you have taken the good from it, and some of you small minded fools have done nothing but throw more fire his way. Josh Constatine, who I also served with, said it the best. You people do not know what skeletons you are inviting in. I Believe that if you have an intelligent comment, or a real world character witness comment, please do post. If you have a view of the wrong he has done through this act, post. But do not come on here proclaiming that he is the worst person alive. Do not talk your smack and hide behind a screen name. Grow up and show some respect. If not for him, for his family, his friends, and all of us fellow soldiers who know him personally. 

Mddg36
Mddg36

can't beleive all the lame douchebags throwin out lame threats at one another.I served with Rinaldi in Sadr City for fourteen months with 1-6 INF. He was a top notch soldiers and a hell of a sniper. A friend to all he served with. Unerring in his sense of duty to Unit and Country. None of which excuse his actions. I pray for the children and families of both Anthony and Amanda whom beleive it or not he loved very much. SSG Lang

Bigsergio
Bigsergio

I know Anthony personally,and before he went to Iraq he was nothing like that.. He was a good good young man.. After he came back from that war he wasent the same.. Blam this piece of shit government who made all of are friends family, go over there and fight for there pure profit.. And now were going to have a mother wave of messed up vets coming back...but in any case no one deserves to die like that... But he diffently came back different...

malasangre
malasangre

when you say this gov't.  please specify the Bush gov't.   Did his long history of domestic abuse start after or before Iraq?   That would be a very helpful detail in the article.

Haley James
Haley James

Doc should have better training for officers, not just bootcamp. This is what leads to the abuse of inmates. But when its an inmate nobody cares. Officer renaldi was highstrung and always out to get somebody for any type of ticket. 

Glyph
Glyph

Funny, from what I remember of my time in the military, shooting unarmed women was not part of my "training."

Lucianvas333
Lucianvas333

I know Sgt.Rinaldi first hand. He was one of my men on "HAVOC", a sniper team. It's a tragic story here that seems to be a rerun across the nation. Rinaldi was an awesome soldier who always had your back and wanted to learn. He was a respectful kid and had a lot of drive. At the time how worked for me he earned a V for valor. I lost touch with him a few years back. My prayers go out to Mrs Rinaldi and family. I can't believe this shit is still going on. "V"

malasangre
malasangre

when cop goes to the joint is it a pig-pen? nah dont worry they will keep you with the other snitches

Savea... MuthaFuckah!!!
Savea... MuthaFuckah!!!

Condolences to the family of Amanda

Wtf Rinaldi? What a fucking douche... Btw, I can say that, I knew him... Hope he suffers in jail, and just cause he was in the military and deployed doesn't mean that he should have done that... I've deployed 4 times doing a total of 53 months under fucking fire, but I would never make the excuse of PTSD if I hurt anyone...

Fluptown99
Fluptown99

yeah he says PTSD but what about the steroids, oxy and other drugs this dude was taking. What a looser. He left two little boys without a mother on Christmas. It should be 1st Degree and Life!

Savea808
Savea808

Yeah, that's right... I remember when he couldn't even complete a 12 mile foot march in three hours, you know, the standard time to complete it as an infantryman... Fucking douche

Guy0103
Guy0103

I served was with Rinaldi in Baumholder and Ramadi with 1/6 Inf. I am not going to say that he was a great guy, he had his moments of being an asshole. I think he needs to suffer the consequences for his horrible actions. However, there have been many a comment on here  about 'Cocksuckers' wanting to legally 'Off someone' from people who have no idea about what it is to be in the military. From people that shoot water instead of bullets. All I am saying is that nowhere in the article did Rinaldi ever mention or say 'It was the PTSD that made me shoot her" that was the police.

Savea... MuthaFuckah!!!
Savea... MuthaFuckah!!!

Good job putting our prestigious unit on blast there man... And no he didn't say it was PTSD, he implied it... I was also in Rimadi, and Baghdad and Sadr City and anywhere else you may have heard the Regulars might have been, but when something went down, I never blamed me going to combat for an excuse of my actions, I own them... And for him to just take a womans life, and leave her children motherless, now that's just him not giving a fuck about the rest of his military training, i.e. self restraint. We learn that too, remember, PID before you shoot... So what was his PID and confirming factor upon pulling the trigger on his own wife? Exactly....

malasangre
malasangre

he is the one who said it was his military training that made him do it.

malasangre
malasangre

no he "snapped" and" flipped".  the doctor will make a final diagnosis but the basis for defense is set. temporary insanity, hard to prove in AZ. unless every LEO in the state is hoping it works.

pretentious
pretentious

wow look at all the comments form the family and friends of this creep. should we give him brownie points for killing his wife? i mean danm he killed his wife so of course society is going to look at him like the rest of the criminals that are sitting there along with him in a cell.

juicybootay
juicybootay

He really let his military bearings get the best of him.bye bye sucka.

juicybootay
juicybootay

HOW DID HE BECOME A CORRECTIONS OFFICER WITH A HISTORY OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?....this is just sad and some of the post on here are awful. people need to put their selves in check or they might end up in a  cell like this guy, where is self control?

Marcy
Marcy

Being a low life wife beater is almost a requirement for becoming a prison guard.

malasangre
malasangre

they like em like that. if you'll beat a woman you'll beat a shackled, unconscious. electrocuted prisoner.

Greyeyes
Greyeyes

Some of y'all stupid or maybe just don't understand how serious PTSD is..

malasangre
malasangre

40+ yrs since Nam and I haven't killed one woman yet.  How did I do it? I'm better than I thought. Thank me NOW

Walter Concrete
Walter Concrete

Yep, they need to hire more of these ex-military guys for the DOC and all of the police departments.   But I don't see how they could hire any more since they're already all ex-military brain washed mercenaries looking for someone to shoot or beat up.    So, where's the big news here?   This is what you have to expect when you hire trained killers.   They kill.

Donna Ann
Donna Ann

So sad.  Their 7 year old & my son attended Kindergarten in Florida together 2 years ago.  I am in shock.  I hope the children will be well cared for.  He was bad news then, when we urged her to leave him.  Very disheartening.

Sarah Pollard70
Sarah Pollard70

Can I ask when will the military decide to help? a few more heart breaking incidents such as this? when do you start fighting to get more help.? I watched my brother go through ptsd, luckily I am in psychology and knew the way to talk to him after an episode that nearly caused death. I wish people would stand up and get them what they need watching what happened the night my brother lost it was scary. It needs to be stopped, ptsd needs to be handled.

malasangre
malasangre

before discharge all soldiers are given/have the oppurtunity to speak to any problems they have,  they are interviewed by shrinks.  before my son discharged he was signed up to get his VA physicals. slow as mud yea? dont say it isn't there.  you can't make patients talk, this killer was convinced (probably by the military) violence settles a dispute, and it certainly does on the battlefield.Does DOC have shrink tests in Az.?  you need one to get in the military, not out.

ExMilitaryWife
ExMilitaryWife

Wow, I can't believe that people are using this comment section as a cyber lynching like this. This was a friend of my husband's and it's a terrible, terrible thing he did, but I still find it in bad taste to sit here and say these things. Regardless of what his 'excuse' was for doing it, he at least turned himself in and didn't try to lie or cover it up, which says to me he's willing to pay the consequence for his crime. And all this hate that you people keep generating toward each other and toward him is the same kind of hate that perpetuates all these terrible things in the world. And I realize that some of your friends and family may have served in the miltary as well...but let me assure you, some see far worse things than others in combat. Maybe he was desensitized to killing the way you people are desensitized to your F bombs. Just a thought.

Marcy
Marcy

I really appreciate a wife beating low life scum murderer who is at least honest.  We need more wife beating low life scum murderers to follow suit and be truthful.

exarmywife
exarmywife

Uh...by the way, it doesn't say anything about him beating his wife. But thanks for the glamorous imagery.

malasangre
malasangre

  if you just knew him in the military you don't know squat.   the pig who screwed over inmates every day killed his wife.  whats to question?  tell your husband his pal lost it and won't call for awhile.

exarmywife
exarmywife

That's the only way my husband knew him, but living with someone for 14 months and seeing them everyday for 2 years can tell you a lot. There's a reason why they call each other 'brother' and we've talked to his best friend who knew him probably better than anyone. Yea, my husband is well aware, dumbass, so thanks.

BritK
BritK

There is too much hatred and profanity in these posts. We are all entitled to our opinions, but let's try to have some tact. It's hatred and anger like this that leads to the devastation we are all experiencing by the death of Amanda by her own husband's hand...

malasangre
malasangre

yea we just snapped and our literary training kicked in. there is a lot of fake ptsd to get benefits. some are truly shell-shocked.  a lot of the real ptsd comes from doing the wrong thing.  The people in his unit are going to love him till the day he dies murderer or not

Ryesturman
Ryesturman

there are images in my head that will never leave... and most of them i never want to leave because it reminds me of just how sweet tasting life is... when i get to go home it is a new world that is foreign to me. friends and family are dead, murdered or just plain ruining there own lives. if you are a soldier who have served with rinaldi i feel your anger for these unknowlagable and naive posts. regular ppl will never understand and never want too unless they go grab a rifle and fight for their own and there families survival because thats exactly what we are, a family of brothers protecting eachother. these strangers to battle are afraid of us and i dont blame them, they should be because we are natural warriors who are just damn good at battle... but honestly if thats the case then we need to look out for our fellow marines, airmen, seabees and soldiers who have done battle and just be there for them even if they are a stranger. even a few simple words can change an outcome of tragedy. they tell us that you never stop being a soldier... if that is true then keep protecting eachother when the battle is done, watch his/hers 6 because the battle of a normal life is even harder with the things we carry in our hearts and minds. peace

malasangre
malasangre

if you are a soldier who served with Rinaldi you know he is responsible for his own stupid shit.  if you are proud of the fact that some civilians see you as a killer you're just weird.  get some meds.

Bobwilles
Bobwilles

weird, i knew this dude in the army!!!! He was actually known as a pretty chill guy!

Marcy
Marcy

Absolutely, when he isn't gunning down women he's a real cool cat.

CavScout-V
CavScout-V

None of you pussy's know what it feels like to be in combat and see the things soldiers like Rinaldo and myself have seen. Rinaldi was a great Sgt. In the united states Army and fought for each and everyone one of you. I don't agree with what he did but it shows you PTSD is real and can affect the best of people. The military needs to doyou a better job recognizing ppl like Rinaldi, myself and countless others with this disease and actuallyyou try toto help usyou instaead of feedingyou us pills. Out of all people never thought he'd flip out like this. He was such a nice and caring guy that was always willing to help someone. Being a civilian after serving is probably the hardest thing we can do. Its a sad day for Rinaldi and the families involved in this tragedy, and my prayers will be with them. Stay strong brother, REGULARS BY GOD

Marcy
Marcy

Do the world a favor, when you feel the urge to gun someone down because you can't handle all the memories of killing kids when you were playing GI Joe, just do yourself.

malasangre
malasangre

i served in combat. what did i see? it can't be much difference. just a different race of shot up, blown up, burnt up people, and say He is the pussy for killing his wife.   in this case he is a punk ass wife killer.  You never should have signed up if you think anyone cares about you.  that's why it's called sacrifice. you aren't doing it for a reward

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