MC Magic: One Big Mistake Up-and-Coming Rappers Keep Making (and More)
Lost in love? Stuck in a relationship quagmire Ann Landers wouldn't understand? Trying to figure out what comes next in life and music? We'd like to invite you personally to bring your problems to Ask Magic, your chance to ask Arizona's reigning slow-jam king for advice on whatever life throws at you. Click here to ask MC Magic a question of your own, and read on for this week's answers.
I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and lately we've been having a lot of problems. He lies to me and goes behind my back talking to other girls. I've told him how I feel about it and he doesn't do anything about it.
What should I do?
Ignored in Phoenix
Your story reminds me of one of my favorite quotes, "You don't know what you have until it's gone."
Many people only interpret that saying to mean that what you have is good, and you don't always realize that until you've lost it. But I believe the blade cuts both ways.
What I'm saying is that your relationship is causing you grief and sadness, which is taking the place of your peace and happiness. Now that he's gone, you know he's not worth it. I recommend you cut ties and let go of Mr. Unfaithful -- eventually that will give you the freedom to find a situation that brings you contentment.
Hello! <3 I hope all is good. I have a question about love. There's a guy who was my boyfriend for some time. Last weekend he says to me, "Que regresaramos." In this moment I tell him, "No, because I'm not sure what I feel for you!"
He's a good guy, but I don't know what to do. What do you say, Magic??
Unsure in Fort Worth
Everyone can offer you advice, but only you know your feelings.