Local Musician and DJ Thom Gabaldon (a.k.a darksouldealer) Passes Away

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Gabaldon and one of his biggest claims to fame.

Gabaldon was also a poet and writer (you can check out some of his prose via Blogspot) who also penned a pair of freelance articles for Phoenix New Times back in 1999 about bygone Valley grindcore band Unruh and one concerning a few local radio programs that were broadcasting underground music during that era.

He also had an ongoing ambient music project called dreamcell, which Aeternum describes as "great, drone-y lushness." Per the project's SoundCloud, Gabaldon continued creating tracks for dreamcell up until last month on his laptop from his hospital bed while undergoing cancer treatments since last year. Some of the tracks, which are drenched in moody and dark sounds, were dubbed with titles like "They inject me with fire (rough)" and "A month of frustration v1," which may reveal his state of mind at the time.

Gabaldon also had a pretty wicked sense of humor, which Aeternum referenced during out Facebook chat earlier today, citing the dude's infamous claims to fame where he modeled a rather shirt sold via the website TShirtHell.com that declared, "I'm the teenage girl you jerked off in the chat room with." (You can still see the pic on the front page of the site.)

We once spoke to Gabaldon about his brief bit of Internet fame and it was something he honestly enjoyed having, as he told me that people would recognize him from the pic.

We've had a few other conversations with Gabaldon over the years that weren't just limited to his infamy. We once spent several hours having a deep conversation with the well-spoken dude while hanging out in the parking lot of the Trunk Space one night after a show in 2011. Much was discussed about music (natch) but we also talked a lot about failed relationships, broken hearts, and the loneliness and ultimate regret that comes with such things.

He seemed to be in a dark place in his life around that time but our talk seemed to cheer him up a bit. It's also a conversation that we won't soon forget.

Gabaldon had that effect on others, as evidenced by the outpouring of tributes and memories that have been posted to his Facebook, including mentions of many memorable conversations he had with people, like one referenced by a friend named Billy Sorenson.

"We talked music, David Lynch films, and Mystery Science Theater 3000 at one of my first Sadiscos," Sorenson wrote. "You were an eclectic snob when it came to tunes, and you were loved by many. If there's a heaven, and you're there Thom, tell them to replace their harps with electric guitars."

A memorial concert in Gabaldon's honor is currently being planned. Friends can check out his Facebook account for more info as it's available.


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kirstin.harper
kirstin.harper

Thom was always smiling when he'd come in my shop, he was such a bright person.  It's too bad he was taken so young.  

laibach666
laibach666

https://www.facebook.com/events/486482498077457/

Refuge: A Memorial to Thom Gabaldon Public · By Aleksandr Aeternum


  • Come join us as we remember Thom Gabaldon, who was taken from us too soon, with his favorite local bands. We will also bring you the first-ever live performance of dreamcell, Thom's ambient electro project.

    For those who do not know, Refuge is the name of a Hurricane Katrina benefit show that Thom organized at Anti Space several years ago. It seemed a fitting name for his memorial.

    21+

    Cover: Free, but donations will be accepted to benefit St. Joseph's Hospital and Hospice of the Valley, which cared for Thom over the past few months.

    Performers:
    dreamcell
    Audra
    The Captives
    Reliquary
    DJ //she//
    DJ Squalor
    DJ Self.Destrukt
    Others to be announced as they are confirmed

laibach666
laibach666

https://www.facebook.com/events/309051909220370/?ref=22

To avoid conflict of schedules I thought of a Memorial project for Thom. From now until April 7th anyone and everyone that loves Thom(Our favorite panda man) and wants to honor him is welcome to bring flowers,candles,pictures, poems, music, etc etc etc and place it under the big giant momma panda and her child within the park. If you are having a hard time finding it, its will be at the east side of the park. The idea is that with this memorial is it will grow and we can post pictures of the memorial as it grows. I did leave a message with Parks and Recs.. If they do get back I will let them know its for a very special person in the community and we just want it up for 1 month. So please go there an honor Thom at the Panda in the Park and take a picture and post it to this event and to his page. Thank you!


thydarkestangel
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Thomas was an incredible person to me.  He was a friend, a brother, a fellow music lover, he was my heart.  I love him more than words could ever say.  I saw him through many hard times and he was there for me when I was going through my own personal hell.  I had the honor of having him as a roomie for 2 years during which time I had to save him from himself more than once.  I will never forget his smile and how his eyes would light up when he saw me.  I loved watching him on the dance floor whipping his curly hair around and not caring what anyone thought of him or who was watching.  I will never forget attending a certain show with him in Tempe and holding him as he sobbed when a certain song came on.  His heart was an open book to all and I could only wish to be as open with my feelings as he was.  He was a kind and gentle man that sometimes felt too much too deeply.   His friends hurt and pain became his hurt and pain and he would never desert you when you needed him.  Thomas was a gentle giant and one of a kind.  I will miss him horribly.  I wish I could have said goodbye to him before he left but it happened too quickly.  I hope he has found peace finally and his soul is free to find the happiness he searched for all his life but never quite found.  I love you, Thomas.  You will never ever be forgotten.  And, as I always used to say...I CARE ABOUT THOMAS!!!!!!!!  

morphiaflow
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I've known Thom for 20 years. He was a friend, a brother, a sparring partner. We circled warily round each other for many years before finally realizing that we were both too much alike, and too different, NOT to be friends. Not least because we shared a bonding experience--we both worked at Phoenix-area record stores throughout the 90s, the last time that job actually meant something. Along with another friend, Michael Johnson (a Tower Records vet),  I wanted the three of us to open our dream record store someday. Our last conversation was Oscar night, texting back and forth about Seth MacFarlane, William Shatner, and Affleck's snub. I promised to bring him movies to watch in the hospital. I was just about ready to do that when I got the call that if I wanted to see him I'd better do it soon. I spent sometime at his bedside the afternoon before he passed, and I'm glad I did. I know he knew I was there. I'm beyond glad I knew him and now I wish I'd gone out of my way to know him more and better than I did. He was one of the good ones and he is, and will continue to be, severely missed.

But I'm one of those silly people who believes that our consciousness and identities do not end when our body does, and thus I believe Thom has gone somewhere else, to that great gig--and record store--in the sky, and someday I know I'll see him again there.

Benjamin deserves serious props for writing such an amazing piece, and also Aleksandr, quoted extensively in this article, deserves to be singled out for special praise for going above and beyond out of his way to help Thom out in so many ways through this difficult time.


Rest in peace, Thom.

suchashame
suchashame

damn, he looked so healthy, too.

drsftpork
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Thom, I am sad we never met, face to face.  All I have are good memories of you- I doubt anyone else will ever see the world with the same eyes as you did.  For what it's worth, you are one of the rare people in my life to have been nothing but a positive, uplifting person- no matter what you were looking at, your perspective was insightful, funny, and delightfully weird.  We'll miss you.

travisfields
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Death sucks. I did not know this man, but after reading this I wish I had.

NoFestRequired
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Thom was an early and enthusiastic supporter of FilmBar, from its inception, when I was involved there. Really nice guy and very sad to hear this.

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