Comedian Doug Stanhope on the Death of His Friends Nowhere Man and a Whiskey Girl

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Comedian Doug Stanhope makes his living going into dark places and making people laugh. Even a cursory glance at his act -- which has included a lengthy reflection on helping his ailing mother commit suicide -- demonstrates that the man has little time for fear and that he can wring laughs out of the worst subjects.

But in light of the news that Stanhope's neighbors, tenants, and close friends Amy and Derrick Ross, better known as Bisbee-based Americana duo Nowhere Man and a Whiskey Girl, had passed away in the 24 hours leading up to our Tuesday, October 15, interview, we fully expected that Stanhope would postpone our interview, set up last week by his manager Brian Hennigan. Instead, he wanted to talk.

See also: Amy and Derrick Ross, Bisbee's Nowhere Man and a Whiskey Girl, Have Died

Answering the phone from New York, where he was scheduled to perform, Stanhope explained that he intended to record a new podcast for his site after our interview, a follow-up to last week's "Cliffhanger" episode. Recorded on Friday, October 11, the last episode features Derrick Ross as Stanhope's guest, discussing Amy's kidney dialysis treatment, battle with lupus, and her pending open-heart surgery scheduled for Monday, October 14.

In trademark Stanhope fashion, the jokes are of the bleakest nature. "Will Amy die or not die?" Stanhope asks in the podcast episode. "Will Whiskey Girl die by the time we do the cliffhanger podcast?" Ross, for his part, is just as black coffee with his wisecracks, noting that he wouldn't be able to go on living if Amy were to die. It is a blunt and chilling listen in light of Derrick's reported suicide and Amy's death in the hospital, though Derrick's slapstick ode to Beyonce, which closes the show with "redneck Jedi" gags, is brutally funny. It would seem that the mysterious Facebook posts that announced the couples' passing, with snappy "hey guys, bad news" and "enjoy every sandwich" quotes, were indicative of their sideways humor.

Our 45-minute conversation with Stanhope covered lots of ground, and a forthcoming blog post will feature our discussion about addiction, Dr. Drew Pinsky, and Stanhope's unique comedic approach, but his thoughts about the passing of the Rosses are presented here.

Obviously I wasn't planning on discussing the passing of Nowhere Man and a Whiskey Girl with you. I was planning on talking about your work in advance of your Stand Up Live show.
Yeah, I'm still having to fucking do all this. Just did an interview, gonna do a podcast, and do a show. I can put on the bullshit face. I just don't have anything to say about that other than it's fucked up.

I understand. My deepest condolences. I didn't know Derrick or Amy personally, but I saw them a handful of times living here in Phoenix.
Oh, they're fucking great. My girlfriend [Amy "Bingo" Bingaman] wanted to go see The Wall for her birthday and I didn't want to go . . . but instead I had Whiskey Girl and Nowhere Man [perform it]. They learned the entire fucking thing and did it at our house for a surprise party. They had a full band, even the bullhorn parts. [Laughs] They learned the entire album just for her birthday. Just fucking amazing.

That's remarkable. It's so weird when something like this happens. I had heard reports that Amy wasn't doing well but . . .
She had lupus. She had lupus forever. Three times a week, she'd go for dialysis. Then she just had some infection. They thought they might have to do open-heart surgery. I don't know if you've listened to the podcast yet.

No, I haven't yet.
It's pretty fucking creepy, because Derrick says, "If she does die . . ." We called it the "cliffhanger podcast," because we taped it Friday and said, "We don't know what's gonna happen," just goofing, not really any actual thought that she was gonna die, and he said, "I think I'd just kill myself; I don't think I could do it."


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mikefrombisbee
mikefrombisbee

Amy and Derrick were the best kind of artists - tops in their craft but without super-sized egos. They gave a lot to Bisbee and were real good people. We are less without them. . 

gaho6465
gaho6465

Saw Doug Stanhope's performance last night in Nanuet , the first after the news of the deaths of his friends. No one would have blamed him for canceling, but he went on, clearly in pain, but hilarious and stone serious at the same time. It was brilliant, a performance I will never forget, and not for the laughs (which were plentiful) but all that he brought to the stage, which was infused with and included a lot of talk about his friends and what had happened and the sorting out of it all, which was woven in and around the other material in true DS fashion. 


That he went on stage at all was amazing, but what he did up there was beyond compare in all respects. (one of the last things he said was something like "Sorry for the lousy show" I'm sure it was lousy for him, but in fact it was....phew!)


I am so sorry for the loss to all Whiskey Girl and Nowhere Man's friends and family. In his own way and style, Mr. Stanhope honored them both last night.

timdlittle
timdlittle

Fucking Sad. Sorry for the loss of your friends.

sefrojones
sefrojones

@gaho6465 I was there as well, and I couldn't have put it better myself. Doug is truly one of the greats.

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